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Post by thefishki345 on Apr 28, 2007 19:57:40 GMT -5
yay lol ok thanks for the advice lol.
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Post by thefishki345 on May 5, 2007 2:00:31 GMT -5
ok, lets revive this thread.,..
and apparently her best friend whos my good friend aswell said that if they break up she might like me (yay and have i alredi mentioned this?) because there is a chance that they will break up because its happened 2 them like 6 times in a year.
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Post by thefishki345 on May 27, 2007 4:40:34 GMT -5
lifes mean... my best friend hooked up with the girl i talked about on previous posts right after me, my best friend her, and 2 other ppl (gf and bf) went 2 the movies as a group of friends.
WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH.
lol, but im happy 4 him, sorta...
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Post by sammy1979 on May 27, 2007 5:14:32 GMT -5
did you take your eye off the ball for to long (its probably that choas thing) lets be honest your not happy for them are you ? but dont worry what's the old saying unlucky at love, lucky at dice or something like that.
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Post by thefishki345 on May 27, 2007 5:57:20 GMT -5
lol haha, girls r so strange, now she's deciding wether to like my best friend or "mr wonderful" as i mentioned before, and i was helping her decide really nicely n stuff so yeah, saying like she can tell me stuff n that i would tell them stuff.
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Post by Turtleboy(AWOL) on May 28, 2007 10:01:33 GMT -5
holy cow this thread is still alive? *gives the thread a walker so it can keep moving without falling over from old age* I hate to say it fish, but it sounds like she's relegated you to the 'I'm not romantically interested in these people' catagory - you know she's got 2 other guys she's trying to decide between already. I bet if you looked around really sneakily, you'd find a girl looking at you crosseyed. then again, I would seriously caution you about taking advice from me, I'm still single at 28
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Post by thefishki345 on May 29, 2007 1:33:31 GMT -5
LOL, and well she's hooked up with my best friend so yeah, no more mr wonderful, but i doubt they will break up, and like another 7 guys like her (MAN SHE'S HOT!) and like she;s my best friend so thats ok and, my school isnt that big, and like i know all the girls and they arent really my type or they r taken or something.
edit: and trust me 2 date the hottest girl in my school ;D
and yes this thread is alive lol, i revived it.
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Post by Turtleboy(AWOL) on May 29, 2007 1:50:52 GMT -5
meh I'm still single too. I've got an idea though - I think I've found a place where people I'd get along with hang out and it's a social thing - kinda like church but for people who have seen far too much to be innocent and normal. I've been having a hard meeting women lately - the whole 'getting to know eachother' part of the relationship is a bit tough for me. there're things I just can't talk about - alot of things - like half a decade of my life that I need to not speak of again if I can manage it. anyhow, this makes me kinda far from the typical innocent normal person and I'm trying really really hard to be typical and normal. so I'm coming to realize that I just need a woman who's been thru something similar, who doesn't judge when I say "I really shouldn't talk about those years, but I can assure you that I've dedicated my life to making something safe so that I can have a great family." - someone who thinks those words are enough and can have a bit of faith in me and not be scared off - someone who maybe sometimes says those same things to me when we're talking. anyhow yeah, so I've been thinking about it, because dating innocent normal girls is just not working. you'd think a 28 year old who ain't dog-faced and is retired with a nice house and car and all that would be able to date a decent woman, but decent women of the type who've had their innocence protected don't want anything to do with guys who have pasts they don't want to talk about. I'll tell you how this new social crowd turns out - it's a pretty vast group of people, so here's to hoping it eventually pans out for me
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Post by thefishki345 on May 29, 2007 2:44:09 GMT -5
YOUR 28 AND YOUR RETIRED? LOL well i have never had problems talking to girls, maybe thats cos im 13 but like idk, i have lots of girls who are like my really good friends so like yeah... and i dont know what you should do, maybe just say you dont want to talk about it or try and change the subject to asking her questions?
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Post by Warmaster Stabwhiskers on May 29, 2007 4:07:00 GMT -5
;D I finally got over my problems fishki, i found someone i like, she found someone she likes (in me) and we get along fine. ;D Score one fer Stabby!She has a better sounding name than mia, btw.
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Post by thefishki345 on May 29, 2007 4:31:51 GMT -5
LOL, good on ya hakuro, whats her name? GERTRUDE? LOL nah kidding W00t GO U
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Post by Turtleboy(AWOL) on May 29, 2007 6:10:14 GMT -5
haha. grats stabby.
and stabby, I don't have a problem talking with girls, or saying 'I don't want to talk about those 5 years of my life,' it's the 'why?' that typically follows that gets me. I typically change the subject as diplomatically as I can and go on with the night, but it generally leaves its mark on things and she generally goes away because she doesn't feel safe with someone who can't talk about half a decade of their life for some unknown reason. either that or I actually do tell her something about those 5 years and she definately doesn't feel safe heh. it's kinda crap..anyhow, I've volunteered with that group of people I was talking about so that I can help them out and have an inroad into their community thru putting in some labor working on their website with them - might meet some cool computer geek girls from that even, who knows!
I guess it just boils down to sticking to the type of people who've experienced similar things in life to what I have so are more understanding.
will tell you how the initial meet up with these folks go, gonna meet them today or tomorrow. will report on if there's many hot girls!!
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Post by thefishki345 on May 29, 2007 18:07:12 GMT -5
yeah cool, and i still have a question for you tboy HOW CAN U RETIRE AT 28? AND COLLECT WARHAMMER?
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Post by Turtleboy(AWOL) on May 29, 2007 18:35:38 GMT -5
I'm on permanent disability
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Post by Warmaster Stabwhiskers on May 29, 2007 19:05:13 GMT -5
Dude, which makes me kinda wonder.....if ur fine with me askin, what curious events happened to you in those 'mysterious' years?
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Post by Turtleboy(AWOL) on May 30, 2007 2:29:20 GMT -5
all I can really say is I saved peoples lives alot. beyond that, I shouldn't talk about it as I'm trying to cultivate a normal safe reality for myself so to attract some female goodness sorry for getting your interest going though, it was not my intention. anyhow stabby, hows this new girl of yours? I didn't get to go meet those people I was talking about in my earlier post - not today at least, but tomorrow looks good, I've got plenty of free time to go and make my introduction with them *prays for a boatload of hot understanding nice goodhearted women*
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Post by thefishki345 on May 30, 2007 4:26:43 GMT -5
lol haha, ok, saved people's lives alot.. hmm ok thats all i need 2 know i respect people;s privacy, and why are you on permanent disability? or was it because of what happened in those years?
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Post by Turtleboy(AWOL) on May 30, 2007 6:44:56 GMT -5
it falls into the 'can't talk about it' zone too, but hey, I'm on permanent disability and no one can ever tell why I'm on it, so I'm not complaining. thanks for respecting my privacy, asking for your consideration on that level is my way of respecting your normality and innocence (and trust me that is a very valuable thing). I would trade all my destroyed innocence and life in the abnormal world for a life that was fully innocent if I had my choice about it. all the power we seek, all the secrets and dangerous sexy lifestyle can only last so long and when your day is done in that world you come back to this one and you just seem to scare people every time you open your mouth and talk. what seems normal to you can often turn people white and turn them fleeing as quick as politely possible. it takes alot of practice to pass off as normal if you've seen alot. anyhow, I ramble, but I just was trying to say that me not talking about my past is a way of giving you a gift - one that I would have liked if I could look back in retrospect: normality. anyhow, for real, we need more news of GIRLS!
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Post by sammy1979 on May 30, 2007 16:42:47 GMT -5
wotcha boys im back, now then fishki im with turtleboy you've been moved into the safe zone, as your 13 i dont think it really matters though, as for the social circle thing if your schools small just think of collage when you get there you can have way more fun. as for you stabby well done on the getting a girl thing, as for you turtleboy as 27 year old who's also seen plenty, i cant offer anything other then support and perhaps one peice of advice i know that works that is if the sun is shining its a better day then it was yesterday,
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Post by thefishki345 on May 30, 2007 19:00:47 GMT -5
ok yeah, i know i am just waiting for like college etc.
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Post by Turtleboy(AWOL) on May 31, 2007 3:48:51 GMT -5
today was great - got to sunbathe and there were bikini-clad women all over (though mostly 18ish which is too young for me) and then I went and met up with those people I was mentioning - too bad all the hot women there were in their 40s!!! (too old for me). the older guys at the event musta been having a blast though. gonna go again tomorrow, maybe a hot single girl will show up girl working at the gas station gave me the distinct impression that she wouldn't have objected to me abducting her and taking her off to have some fun...maybe it was the fact that she quite blatantly said 'you know you could abduct me - throw me in your car and drive off...' then grinned like she meant business that left me with that impression still I want to meet someone for the long haul, not just score a one night stand. I definately want to make some friendships which I can cultivate into the right relationship with the right woman. geeze - there were some hot moms at that thing I went to earlier haha. waay too old but you can imagine how hot they were to get a second mention in the post anyhow, here's to hoping there's a pretty girl which I can befriend tomorrow with this group of folks.
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Post by thefishki345 on May 31, 2007 4:10:53 GMT -5
lol cool, and keep trying and like i know how it is for people asking about things you want kept quiet so yeah, and i would rather not talk about it to, so yeah...
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Post by Deleted on May 31, 2007 14:30:02 GMT -5
Ahhhhhh god where did it all go wrong.(slams head off keyboard). One girl who likes me and i kinda liked back just suddenly lost intrest. and the one I really really really really like suddenly went with a friend and they never told me and had to have it taunted in my face by person i hate. and thats how i found out. and were all good friends. why suddenly am i out of the loop. aaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by Turtleboy(AWOL) on May 31, 2007 17:26:38 GMT -5
aww that sucks blackdeath! welcome back though - haven't seen you around since I returned till now.
best advice is to work on your friendship with both women it might salvage something unexpected in the long run. I'd shelve your 'more than friends' feelings though as hanging onto those while trying to work on just being friends is gonna cause you a heap-ton of pain.
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Post by Goddess of Darkness on May 31, 2007 19:21:31 GMT -5
In the long run guys...be yourselves and when you least expect it....wham..she'll turn up and you say all the right things and so will she....so cheer up and just have fun with life.
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