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Post by Deleted on May 31, 2007 19:38:48 GMT -5
Gotta live life, there aint no point in livin unless you enjoy yourslef, and personally, i'm just waiting until i find a girl that really just clicks, i think fate has a way in making it happen, i don't enjoy going "looking" for girls.
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Post by Turtleboy(AWOL) on Jun 1, 2007 0:14:04 GMT -5
I think I'm more putting myself out there than 'looking.' got together with that group of people again tonight, definately more women my age this time - a couple were pretty hot too! holy smokes more hot moms were there too haha. I decided to become a 'regular' so I volunteered to help out within the community - should make for some good opportunities over time I'm sure.
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Post by thefishki345 on Jun 1, 2007 4:31:12 GMT -5
cool congrats.
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Post by Warmaster Stabwhiskers on Jun 1, 2007 8:19:42 GMT -5
For this thread i'de suggest playing "message for the queen" on your stereo to set the "lost but finding a way" mood. Anyways here's to mi gonna rant abt her. Her name's Celine and she's a year younger than me (BEAT THAT FISHKI) And we're both into each other. ^^
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Post by Deleted on Jun 1, 2007 12:59:01 GMT -5
Thanks TB. one of them has started pestering me why if so angry/depressed when she saw me snap a pencil in 3 while stareing into space. and i cant tell her as shes part of the main prob. aaahhhhh>>>>!
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Post by Turtleboy(AWOL) on Jun 1, 2007 19:02:16 GMT -5
write this down on a scrap of paper, then find her and /wield scrap of paper. proceed to read to her.
'I am angry/depressed because I like you and that isn't looking so good at the moment, but I also like you enough to know that I'd be alot angrier/depressed if I lost our friendship, so I just need a second to figure out the whole 'you're taken and we're friends' thing - its alot different than the 'you're single and we're friends' thing.'
I dunno - I'd take that approach. honesty is typically good...though sometimes not talking about it is good when it is just something that would be permanently bad to say (like the stuff you can never take back)...still, telling her how you feel but that you're just needing a moment to find a way to be her friend in a way that's respectful of her choices doesn't seem like something that you'd want to take back.
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Post by Goddess of Darkness on Jun 1, 2007 19:48:33 GMT -5
I agree with turtle boy....
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Post by thefishki345 on Jun 1, 2007 23:02:23 GMT -5
yeah true same, that was a good piece of advice, but that advice is coming from a man whos single!
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Post by Goddess of Darkness on Jun 2, 2007 0:34:51 GMT -5
doesn't matter....he may not have found the right girl to talk to yet.
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Post by Warmaster Stabwhiskers on Jun 2, 2007 1:16:20 GMT -5
good point....
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Post by thefishki345 on Jun 2, 2007 2:22:22 GMT -5
ook..
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Post by Turtleboy(AWOL) on Jun 2, 2007 4:00:15 GMT -5
veterans who have spent their whole lives at war and one day come home are single too, but they probably have a bit of wisdom from their experiences and time spent sitting and pondering that which they protect. just a thought
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Post by thefishki345 on Jun 2, 2007 4:04:08 GMT -5
haha yeah...
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Post by Turtleboy(AWOL) on Jun 2, 2007 4:29:49 GMT -5
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Post by Warmaster Stabwhiskers on Jun 2, 2007 4:54:20 GMT -5
Gd on you TB! Hope theres someone in that crowd just for you...if you think its easy, it'll be much better for you and others around ya. So keep in that positive motion going, and may the emperor guide you. ps. he makes great shepherd's pie!
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Post by Deleted on Jun 2, 2007 5:51:00 GMT -5
Hhhhhmmmmm..................shepards pie.
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Post by thefishki345 on Jun 2, 2007 6:57:19 GMT -5
mmmmmmmmmmmm... pie.....
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Post by Warmaster Stabwhiskers on Jun 2, 2007 7:04:15 GMT -5
Yeah...whatever ... pie
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Post by thefishki345 on Jun 2, 2007 7:50:59 GMT -5
hehe...pie...
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Post by Turtleboy(AWOL) on Jun 2, 2007 8:05:20 GMT -5
It's more on the level of not over-noticing the women at this point. I kinda want to be able to take a year or something to just get to know alot of good women. seems as if I've tapped a good 'source' - something kinda hard to do in your late 20's. anyhow yeah, I'd like to be friends with ms. right and then one day find her single and beating down my door (or making it clear that she wouldn't be opposed to me beating down her door ). nothing like having a good friend that you really like turn into something more - that's the way to do it in my opinion. time means you get to know who the person REALLY is - people can put on a face for only so long; eventually you'll see the real them. finding the right woman, for me, is about outlasting that fake front people put up so that I can see what I'm actually getting into. anyhow yeah, seems like good days to come! just need to harness the patience and hold on to that 'delayed gratification' thought
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Post by Deleted on Jun 2, 2007 15:54:15 GMT -5
Well dont wait to long or what happened to me may happen to you to.
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Post by thefishki345 on Jun 2, 2007 18:34:26 GMT -5
yeah true...
and most of the girls i liked i have got to know them first then started to like them.
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Post by Turtleboy(AWOL) on Jun 3, 2007 0:44:58 GMT -5
hmm that's true blackdeath - if I meet a girl that I really like and she's single then I'll be sure to be more forward.
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Post by Goddess of Darkness on Jun 3, 2007 1:12:00 GMT -5
Just be careful that it doesn't back fire on you and you end up ruining your friendship....i have seen it happen.
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Post by thefishki345 on Jun 3, 2007 1:47:22 GMT -5
yeah, thats what i was worried about...
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